breck7777
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Post by breck7777 on Jul 22, 2009 23:28:31 GMT -5
so. theres this guy. (and by the way no one can let him on here... ok?   ) (please dont laugh at this insanity86, endlessxbliss, nyxkitsune, and anyone else) hes awesome. he loves to write. to read. to laugh. he offered to write a story about a map i drew years ago and he did! he is still writing it! ;D but. he is somewhat immature(hey, all boys are). he has adhd. we have different values. different beliefs(protestant vs cathlic) different expectations of ourselves. and he has a rather low self esteem(no doubt 'cause he has been a bully target for years  ) we both like each other. but i dont know if we could date. i want to but i dont know if it would work.  help!!!!!!!!! |
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Post by myxitup on Jul 22, 2009 23:42:23 GMT -5
try it out!!!! who knows? (sorry wasn't much of help.. dun really know u. )
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Post by endlessXbliss on Jul 22, 2009 23:46:23 GMT -5
sounds like the problem is ur scared. of getting hurt. I dun really blame u. there's always a risk of getting hurt, and losing the friendship. ut life is all about risks, isn't it? wer wud we be if we didn't take risks? & if u both like each other, why not take a risk then? if u really like each other, then it'll work. & just in case it doesn't (which i doubt, knowing u two  ) at least u dun have that lingering feeling in the end asking y didn't u try. if it were me, i'd rather regret having done something than regret not doing it. & these differences will keep u guys talking (& interested), won't they? & i'm sure u dating him will raise his self-esteem. so try it out. |
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breck7777
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Post by breck7777 on Jul 22, 2009 23:53:16 GMT -5
thanks miss admin!
hm any other opinions?
oh yeah... he has some adversion to dating... i dont know why
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Post by nyxkitsune on Jul 23, 2009 3:16:28 GMT -5
thanks miss admin! hm any other opinions? oh yeah... he has some adversion to dating... i dont know why Yeah, you're telling me. Honestly he just annoyes me ... that is of course if he's who i think he is... but i won't say more on that, i promise!  However, i agree with endlessXbliss... You'll regret it more at the end of the day if you stay tight-lipped and hope for an answer that he may never be ready to give. And even if the answer is no, if something doesn't work out, or if it's too early for a 'serious' relationship, it sounds from your description that you two are great friends. You've probably argued a couple of times, (due to reasons you mentioned in your 1st message) which means that you aren't a couple under the illusion that everything will always work out and you will always see eye to eye. (i've never heard of a relationship like this that worked - however, if you have a 'soul mate' like this and it really works, im not gonna argue with you!!!) It means that you've been through some problems and are capable of getting through your arguements instead of never getting past that point where someone needs to apologize or hear the other side of the story. Despite your differences, or even because of them, i think that you'll be ok. Go for it! Gambatte!!! ...that sounded a lot shorter and less melodramatic/cheesy in my head... O-o oops... |
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Post by breck7777 on Jul 23, 2009 12:30:50 GMT -5
lol thanks nyx! and missadmin! (nyx, you should know him... i described him well enough ;D )
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Post by nyxkitsune on Jul 23, 2009 22:11:46 GMT -5
Yeah iknow him... Just don't get married to him, ok? I have NOT given you permission with that last message: it was more of a general good luck thing... ok? Not to be super negative, he just really annoys me - he'll hafta mature some before i accept him as the groom!  |
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Post by endlessXbliss on Jul 23, 2009 22:40:42 GMT -5
^ i agree, he needs some seriously growing up. |
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Post by nyxkitsune on Jul 23, 2009 23:01:25 GMT -5
Yeah, you're telling me! |
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Post by breck7777 on Jul 23, 2009 23:16:49 GMT -5
hey! not nice! hmmph >.> he is plenty more mature than most boys i know!! some people... i mean really! |
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Post by nyxkitsune on Jul 23, 2009 23:26:24 GMT -5
"he is plenty more mature than most boys i know!!" You just keep thinking that, dear... |
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Post by endlessXbliss on Jul 23, 2009 23:57:46 GMT -5
apparently, we need to introduce you to more guys.  ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by breck7777 on Jul 24, 2009 0:11:05 GMT -5
hmph. you guys are so annoying >.> at least he doesnt cus. he isnt afraid of what people will think of him, either!
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Post by nyxkitsune on Jul 24, 2009 0:27:17 GMT -5
apparently, we need to introduce you to more guys. ;D ;D ;D Too true, bliss, too true... (Lolz! ;D ) (He does cuss, breck, just not very often, and never when with you. hint hint nudge nudge cough cough ) |
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Post by breck7777 on Jul 24, 2009 0:31:45 GMT -5
XD surree he does. ive heard from his friends that he doesnt. and that he gets upset at them when they do.
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) (please dont laugh at this insanity86, endlessxbliss, nyxkitsune, and anyone else)
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) at least u dun have that lingering feeling in the end asking y didn't u try. if it were me, i'd rather regret having done something than regret not doing it. 
